Mabel Iam is a recognized psychotherapist, advisor, and author. Eager to
share her knowledge with others, this TV and radio personality is the author
of numerous self-help books on topics ranging from astrology to sexuality. A
trusted source for self-help advice in her native Argentina, Mabel is now
making inroads in the U.S. Hispanic and English markets.
Magic is the art of using the whole of the natural and universal energies. To
responsibly perform Wiccan magic, it's necessary to know the spiritual laws
governing the material world. Many people choose to ignore these forces.
The expression "sexual magic" refers to the conscious use of sexual
energy. Sexual magic is not about the absurd idea of linear intercourse,
where both lovers go in search of something: orgasm. Orgasm is not just the
feeling of relief generated when energy is unblocked. All energy unblocked
produces pleasure, and is therefore welcome. But Wiccan sexual magic goes
deeper than that.
Magical ecstasy is the experience of the sexual as a spiritual communion with
our partners. This, in turn, allows us to merge with our inner divinity -
with oneness, with our real and eternal selves. Extra-sensuous communication
takes place during intercourse because the senses are heightened and perceive
beyond the mundane.
A Wiccan erotic ritual can have a wonderful effect on a couple. An erotic
ritual, experienced as an act of creativity and truthfulness, can forever
change the way you make love.
For success and deep spiritual contact, the Wiccan couple must keep certain
basic rules in mind. These rules can be flexible - just like love. But it is
important to remember that the whole universe starts with you, and
self-knowledge is a building block in responsible magical workings. So, check
out some of the basic rules below and make sure they all apply to your life:
Sexual energy is the strongest energy we possess, but we often don't know how
to handle it. If we haven't dealt with our sexual energy in a healthy way for
a long time, it may split from the spiritual process. An obsessive mental
process may be generated by this split, and that's why there are discordant
behaviors in most relationships. It is important to know that sex is a sacred
energy, and we must use it as a pure channel of boundless, divine love.
The purpose of sexual magic is to unify the divine within us. Sexual magic in
general - and Wiccan erotic exercises in particular - will enable you to:
Full Moon Wiccan Lover Ritual:
Rituals are meant to nourish us, even those that are not formal in nature.
The best ritual is aesthetically and spiritually simple and attractive. It is
flexible and evokes all of our senses. A sexual ritual can be simple, but
each act must be undertaken in a sacred manner.
The moon has feminine qualities. Full moon energy stimulates the following
qualities in both men and women: It rules intuition, affection, and
spirituality. It stands in response to life and states of mind. Since it
relates to water energy and rules the tides, it guides changes, movement, and
body rhythm in women - including pregnancy and physical life changes. Lunar
energy affects the breast, ovaries, and digestive system.
Each month, the full moon creates a period of intensified energy and elevated
spiritual activity.
Preparation:
Find a spot in your sacred space where you and your partner can watch the sky
and the full moon. Light three white candles on your sacred altar and turn
off the lights. Play some relaxing, mysterious, spiritually harmonious,
mystical music.
Do a breathing or relaxation exercise as a couple. (You can find instructions
at www.mabeliam.com/en/relaciones.htm under "Erotic Rituals" or in
the book Sex and the Perfect Lover.)
Move softly to the rhythm of the music you selected, until you feel deeply
relaxed. Once you are ready and have relaxed all your muscles, you can get
started. Sit comfortably, in the lotus position if you wish.
First, stare at the full moon for a few minutes. Focus on your feelings and
thoughts as you stare at the moon. Once you feel you have gazed long enough,
close your eyes. You will probably still see an afterimage of the moon in
your mind's eye. Imagine there is a ray of light coming from the moon towards
you. The light enters the top of your head and travels through your body,
bathing it in light.
Once you feel the light energy of the moon enter your body, visualize the
white light of the moon as a spiral, penetrating and protecting the room
where you are now sitting.
Once you have finished the meditation, thank the moon for Her power and Her
love, and for the experience She granted you. Breathe in deeply three times
and slowly open your eyes. Look at the full moon and repeat your thanks. You
may then make a wish for the coming month.
Do this ritual before your erotic magic ritual. You can repeat it with your
lover every day during the three days of the full moon. You can also do it
during the waning moon.
The full moon shines light on a couple. This is a good time for creativity
and for romantic encounters. Your body becomes altered and excited more
readily than at other times of the month..
Let the moon, that Great Goddess, bless and protect your love.
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