Maria Shaw (Michigan) is a professional astrologer, intuitive, and author.
She is the host of the bi-monthly radio show, Affairs of the Heart,on
Citadel's WIOG 102.5FM in Michigan and has appeared on such shows as VH-1 All
Access: Serial Daters, TV Guide Channel, and the FOX reality show, Mr.
Personality. A regular contributor to various New Age publications, Ms. Shaw
currently writes monthly astrology columns for Soap Opera Digest and Tiger
Beat magazines and is the sex and love columnist for Complete Woman . She is
the author of two recently published teen books, Maria Shaw's Star Gazer and
Maria Shaw's Book of Love. Her next book , Soul Mates and Hot Dates will be
released in August 2005.Maria has helped thousands of people through her Past
Lives and Present Loves workshops at women's expos and other venues across
the country. She lives with her family near Detroit.
When I became a professional astrologer almost thirteen years ago, I wanted
to specialize but didn't know which subject area to focus upon. So I let the
universe decide. As calls came in and my business grew, it became obvious I
was meant to do relationship and compatibility work. Over ninety percent of
the calls for consultations were about love. Some of my clients had wonderful
"soul mate" stories to share. Others had heartbreaking experiences.
Many were looking for love. Others had just been through tough divorces or
breakups and needed time to heal.
After years of working with all sorts of people from all walks of life -
different ages, cultures, backgrounds, and religions - I came to the
realization that we are all the same in one important way: we all want to
love and be loved. Deep down, even people who seem angry and hurt and claim
to have sworn off love, truly need it and want it. They just don't want the
pain that seems to go with it.
So, how do you find a special love? And once you've found it, how do you keep
it? It all begins with you and your perception of yourself.
Anytime you affirm the positive in "you," you affirm the positive
in relationships with others. Special people are easily drawn to you when you
feel good about who you are. If you truly like yourself; others will be
attracted to that positive energy around you. Think of someone you know that
seems to be well-liked at work or in your social circle. Think of someone
successful, smart, and happy. What's he got that others don't? A sense of
self-confidence. And that confidence helps him spread his wings, to go that
extra mile, and perhaps take chances most people would not. How about a woman
you know that doesn't look like a model but has no problem attracting men?
This "average" gal probably doesn't think she's
"average." She knows she's special and that's what makes a
difference in how people perceive her. When you feel good about who you are,
you will talk, walk, and carry yourself differently than if you're down on
yourself.
If you don't have movie star looks or a Ph.D., so what? Everyone is born with
different talents. It's your responsibility to find out what those talents
are and start nurturing and expanding upon them. The best way to build
self-confidence is to do something you are great at. If you have a flair for
cooking, think about catering or opening a restaurant. If you love dancing,
join a class or start a dance group. That's certainly a great way to meet
people.
It amazes me how many of us work hard to find a new job or to expand our
career, but we can't seem to apply that same ethic to finding a relationship.
If we put just as much time and energy into meeting someone as we put into a
job hunt or career climb, we'd probably have tons of options and offers for
love! I hear the same sentiment from both men and women, "I can't meet
anyone. All the good ones are taken." Or, "No one ever asks me
out." I know for a fact that there are plenty of decent guys and girls
out there that are looking for long-term commitments ... because I hear from
them everyday. It's just a matter of finding them!
Here are some tips that will help bring love into your life:
1. Get out of the house. Hang out in places where other people are.
2. Join a group that interests you.
3. Ask friends and family if they know anyone who's single that you might be interested in.
4. Give yourself a makeover if you need to. It'll help you feel more confident.
5. Meditate on drawing the perfect mate to you.
6. Visualize the perfect mate.
7. Work with color therapy and crystals to draw love into your life.
8. Do daily affirmations to draw your soul mate.
9. Be positive! Give thanks! Know that the universe is sending you the
perfect love.
10. Develop your spiritual side.
In my latest book, Maria Shaw's Book of Love, there are many examples of how
to draw love to you. And once you have found that perfect love, the book
helps you determine how compatible you and your partner are. It is written
primarily for teens and the young adult market, but I have had people of all
ages express an interest in the techniques included in the book to find out
more about making that "love vibe" work. From astrological
compatibility to working with candle magic and the ancient numerology
formulas, Maria Shaw's Book of Love can give you some insight and spiritual
guidance.
Love is magical. I want you to know that you can create and manifest love in
your life! One of the ways I teach people to do this in Maria Shaw's Book of
Love is to learn to channel their energies correctly to draw love into their
world. We can do this through the art of candle magic.
The rules for candle magic are simple. Buy a candle in a color for a specific
intention. Begin your candle burning on the day of the week that's best
suited to your intention. Set-up is easy, too. Find a nice, quiet area. Burn
the candles at the same time every day, in the same room, and for the same
intention. You should use a fresh candle every day. Place your candle in a
clear crystal, metal, glass, or wood holder. Make sure it is secure and don't
leave it unattended.
Some people place a rose quartz gemstone near the base of their candle while
it burns. Rose quartz is known as the love stone, and the energy from that
particular stone can help energize the power of your intention.
I suggest you burn the candle for ten minutes each day. If you cannot stay
with the candle that long, burn it for at least two minutes each day. As you
light the candle, say a prayer or affirmation out loud. Here are a few
suggestions from Maria Shaw's Book of Love:
To Attract Love To You
Candle color: Pink
Day: Start burning your candle on Tuesday if you're a girl. A guy starts on
Friday.
Crystal: Rose quartz
Affirmation: "I draw perfect love to me. I'm filled with the power of
love and attraction. I give thanks for love in my life."
For Self Confidence in Love
Candle Color: Red
Day: Sunday
Crystal: Bloodstone
Affirmation: "I am confident, self-assured, and special. People are
attracted to me. I am loved and appreciated. There is no fear of rejection
around me.
To Forgive Someone
Candle Color: Blue
Day: Thursday
Crystal: Chrysocolla
Affirmation: "I forgive[name of person] for the harm, pain, or hurt they
brought me. I let go of any resentment they have caused me."
To Overcome a Difficult Situation in a Relationship
Candle Color: Blue
Day: Thursday
Crystal: Blue lace agate
Affirmation: "I give thanks that I am able to overcome any difficulties
and challenges in a positive way. Problems and obstacles fall by the wayside.
My path is clear and inviting. No harm comes to me."
To Find Your Soul Mate
Candle Color: White and purple and pink
Day: Thursday
Crystal: Amethyst, rose quartz, or clear quartz
Affirmation: "I am inviting my soul mate to come into my life now. I am
ready to embrace you with an open heart, mind, and soul. I am thankful for
your presence and love."
To fall in love can transform our very being. It can make us all better
people. Our souls already know this. That's why everyone seeks this unique
connection.
I urge you to view all of the relationships that enter your life as gifts. Be
they positive or negative influences, each person possesses a gift that will
help you grow spiritually. Chance meetings are not coincidental. The people
you ride next to on the subway or stand with a grocery line may have a
purpose in your life, Some are obviously more meaningful than others, but
each still serves a divine purpose. Who you choose to be with romantically
and love is even deeper.
The next time you meet someone, think for a moment, "What am I supposed
to learn from this person?" Even if you just strike up a polite
conversation for a few minutes, there's something to learn. Maybe someone
just flashes a smile and that gesture brightens your mood.
Each and every one of us is divine. We have a physical sense but also a
spiritual sense. Because we can see, hear, and touch each other physically,
it's easy to look at others only in a physical way. But take a moment to
ponder someone's spiritual essence. How do you "feel" about her?
I urge you to begin looking at your relationships in the spiritual sense. And
feel blessed. We all come together for a purpose. The most meaningful part of
life is not getting an expensive car or buying a Gucci bag - it's our
relationships with others. There are constant exchanges each and every day,
and they may be more meaningful that you've ever imagined.
Throughout your life, people come and go. Some will touch your life more than
others. There will be the great loves of your life as well as those people
who cause you heartache. There'll be someone you'll never forget and someone
you'll never let go of. Love changes our lives. And allowing yourself to be
open to the most powerful emotion of which we are capable is truly a choice
to accept a gift. Love is the best gift you can give someone and the greatest
you can receive. Be open to all of your opportunities to create and share
love in your life!
RECOMMENDED TITLES BY THIS AND OTHER AUTHORS:
BOOK OF LOVE:
Palm reading, love numbers, astrological compatibility and simple love magic, targetted at teens.
HEART AND SOUL:
Who's hot and who's not, with 144 sun sign combinations.
TAROT KIT FOR TEENS:
This unique kit was designed just for teens. Maria Shaw, psychic and astrologer, shares her secrets with you.
ALL ABOUT THE WICCA OF LOVE:
This book describes the numerous spells and enchantments that exist in the realm of love.
FENG SHUI FOR LOVE & ROMANCE:
Take advantage this ancient knowledge to attract the right partner, strengthen the bond in an existing relationship, and enjoy a relationship with one who is both a lover and friend.
HOW TO EXPAND LOVE:
Transform self-centered energy into outwardly-directed compassion.
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